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If
You Want Him To Trust You Then You Must Know What To Do And What Not
To Do
If you want a man to
trust you, you must first trust yourself. Very often when a woman
meets and man and begins to fall in love with him, she slowly starts
to lose herself to him. She drops other activities she would usually
do just to be more available to him. She’ll downsize her social
circle, becoming more dependent on him for interaction, and she’ll
even start doing things she wouldn’t normally do and doesn’t
really enjoy doing, because she thinks it will please him. Wrong,
wrong, wrong. A woman who heads down the path with a man in this
way, will more than likely find a split on it further down.
A man wants to be
with the woman who he fell in love with, not some other watered down
version of her. He wants her to stand up for herself and say what
she really thinks, likes, wants and doesn’t, whether he agrees or
not. Being a yes woman does nothing for a man’s attraction towards
a woman. When a woman starts acquiescing to a man’s every whim,
she becomes boring to him, and the less she expresses her true
opinions with him, the less he will respect her because he will not
see her as someone he can get an honest answer out of, and once he
feels this way, he’ll start shutting down from her.
Keeping
Love Alive
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Confidence in ones
self, is the single most attractive quality anyone can have. And
when a woman is confident with a man, his attraction towards her
will keep growing as will his confidence in her. When a man meets a
woman who demonstrates that she is busy with her own life, and that
she is not available to him on his terms only, dropping what she is
doing for him for no good reason, when it is obvious she believes in
herself and doesn’t need anyone else’s approval for being who
she is, a man understands he is getting the real deal with her. She
is real, true, and can be trusted because she doesn’t stop being
herself just because she is with him. This is the kind of woman a
man wants and when he finds her and falls in love with, he will
value her, because she values herself, and he will respect her and
treat her accordingly because he knows that if he doesn’t she will
not tolerate it, she will leave.
And last but by no
means least, if you want something, you must learn to give it. A
woman cannot expect her man to trust her, if she doesn’t trust
him. Her lack of trust in him will not only diminish his good
feelings towards her, but it will also make him question why she
doesn’t trust him and wonder whether it is because she shouldn’t
be trusted? If you want your man to trust you, you must give him
reasons too, first by trusting yourself and then by extending that
trust to him. Like begets like.
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